Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Sunday, February 1, 2009

And suddenly all is done..

Then life goes on..

At the time it seemed endless. Seeing dad taking care of mums needs, cher2, trix, May and Esther doing her dressing, preparing her medicine, taking care of her food. Trying to spend every moment possible of the day at home with her.

And then she passed, making all our time with her only memories.
Preparing for the funeral, and reliving her final moments was more difficult as those times. And with her cremation today, it all seems to be over. . ended. . finished. . done.
And life goes on.. but not completely true.

There is an enormous void in our hearts. It takes a lot of getting used to, having her there in all our best times, sharing laughs, insults, food, gambling, watching TV..

I know that we all feel it, but we are just not mentioning it.

How long will it take to get used to this? I miss mum so much..


/Some of mums students have blogged mums passing.
I thank their memories, and am very grateful to them remembering mum.


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